Shannon, I can relate to this 100%. I always find it interesting that so many assumptions are made when it comes to women and sex. It’s ok for women to enjoy porn and not always the so-called one’s geared towards women. Some women, myself included, love giving head, it’s not always a chore or dreaded event. The point is all the bullshit about how women are supposed to view and engage in sex needs to be thrown out the window. Why should anyone outside of the person having sex get to decide what’s normal or acceptable for women and their sex drives and desires? And there should be no embarrassment or shame when having conversations about sex. We are all grown.